Do you feel pressured to go all out and spend a lot when giving gifts? Here’s how to deal with pressure and guilt during the holidays.
Most of us have probably experienced the feeling that we can’t afford to give a loved one a big enough or an expensive enough gift to show how much we value them. But you don’t need to break the bank to show your love!
It might sound silly, but the thought really does count. Gifts don’t always need to be expensive to show that you put thought into them. Did you spend time and care choosing the gift? Is it something that reflects the recipient’s personality and interests? Answering yes to those questions is more important than the cost of the gift.
You can also set boundaries with yourself, and others if needed, when going into the holiday season. If you can only afford to spend a certain amount on gifts, be clear with that limit and maybe you can even ask your loved ones to join in so there’s less pressure on everyone.
You might also need to take a look at who you’re giving gifts to. If someone is basing your relationship on how much you can spend, even if you’ve explained any financial limits, that person might not be someone you can keep in your circle. Remember that having the right people around you is essential to having a happy holiday and a peaceful life!
This holiday season, let go of the guilt and pressure. Focus on creating meaningful memories and giving from the heart. That’s what the holidays are really about.
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